Unlike their younger siblings, preteens have a much greater understanding of the concept of divorce and they are more likely to have peers with divorced parents. However, just because they understand it better, doesn’t mean they accept it. Children in this age group have rigid moral views (as you know if you have ever played a [...]
At early ages, the way that children experience the world evolves at a rapid pace. This evolution includes the way that children experience the divorce of their parents. Children in the early elementary years understand and experience divorce in a much more sophisticated manner than younger children; however, they are still young enough to require [...]
Preschool age children (ages 3-5) tend to be the most vulnerable age group in terms of adjustment to divorce, but there are concrete things parents can do to smooth the transition.. This stage of child development creates challenges that parents need to consider as part of their divorce process. Parents can help their preschoolers navigate [...]
About one-third of all divorces occur within the first five years of marriage and those are often the years when people are starting families. There are unique aspects of toddler development (18 months – 3 years) that need to be understood and recognized when couples are divorcing. Follow these guidelines to smooth the transition for [...]
Managing divorce is always complicated when children are involved. Having a child that is an infant adds an additional layer of complexity. Infants can’t verbally communicate their feelings. Also, this period is a time when they are developing an attachment to their primary caregiver-- the relationship that will be foundation for all future relationships. Divorcing [...]
When a couple comes to me for divorce advice, one of their primary concerns – after ensuring that the kids are okay – is making sure they don’t go broke in the process. The good news is how much you spend on your divorce is completely within your control – you just have to be [...]
When parents reach the painful decision to divorce, their first concern – without fail – is how to tell the children. Deciding how to tell your children about divorce will not be easy, but with the right research, preparation, and attitude it can be done in a loving, supportive, and healthy way. To make sure [...]
When most people think of divorce, they envision an excruciating court battle with both sides flanked by teams of lawyers seeking to win everything at all costs. And while this is certainly what divorce ends up looking like for some families, it doesn’t necessarily have to be the case for yours.No matter which way you [...]
